Children and Las Vegas Divorce

Children and Las Vegas divorceDivorces can take on a whole new perspective when children are involved. The goal of each divorcing parent must be to minimize the impact children during divorce. The best Las Vegas child custody attorneys know that studies show divorce is easier for children to recover from than a constant high conflict marriage, which causes more internal stress in the long run.

Divorcing Parents Must Consider Their Children First

It is vitally important for divorcing parents to consider the effect they are having on their children. Children need to know both parents love them. That means the parents must be conscious of their actions in front of their children. They must be more aware of their own emotions, so the children are not getting the brunt of the frustration parents feel toward each other. The last place the children should be is in the center of the conflict. Divorce is never a child’s fault. So and it’s the parents’ job to ensure each child knows this.

Never Use Children for Selfish Purposes

The last thing the top divorce attorneys in Las Vegas want to hear is that you plan on using your children as a bargaining chip. Child custody or support are never leverage over financial matters. Children are completely separate from marital finances and they should stay that way. Valid concerns and goals regarding child custody and child support are one thing. But remember that the family courts always consider what is in the best interest of the children. You should too.

Keep the Conflict Away From Children

The best way to protect children during a divorce is to keep the conflict away from them. Arguing and fighting in front of them can cause psychological harm. Parents need to keep this in consideration and ensure a safe and secure environment for their children. Open communication helps children better understand better what’s happening. This allows the children to ask questions, eliminate fears, and prepares them for the upcoming changes. Honest and open conversation always serves best. But there is no need going into all the details regarding any conflict between you and your spouse.

Preparing Children for Divorce Changes

Change is inevitable in a divorce. Giving children time to adjust to these changes helps them ease into it more confidently. Fear and insecurity run rampant in children’s minds as a natural process of child development. The changes that occur in a divorce can exacerbate the stress they may already feel. Giving them a few weeks’ notice will allow them to mentally prepare for the transitions. It will empower them to know where they will be living, and with whom. If they will be going back and forth between both parents in joint custody, it benefits them to know ahead of time. This is so they can prepare and also make plans with friends and schoolmates nearby.

Divorcing Parents Can Benefit from Education

Parents should look into educational opportunities and programs for themselves and for their children during and after Las Vegas divorce proceedings. These programs often help establish a stronger relationship between the children and their parents. Not only do these programs help improve the relationships between the parents and children, but they also help children to better cope with the transition and changes that inevitably follow a divorce.

Dealing with Divorce in Las Vegas

Dealing with divorce in Las VegasNo one expects their marriage to end, but as any divorce attorney in Las Vegas will tell you, statistics prove that by the 20 year mark of a marriage, approximately 48% end in divorce. This result is typically a combination of factors from both parties, not just one spouse. Additionally, divorce affects the emotions of both spouses and their children.

Emotional Factors of Divorce in Las Vegas

The emotions that rise up during a divorce are totally normal. Things may be proceeding relatively smoothly. But then one or both spouses may have a sudden onset of anger, anxiety, fear or grief. These emotions often catch you off guard. The good news is this is totally normal, and it eventually subsides. It is vital that you maintain a reasonably balanced approach to the divorce proceedings. You also need to be self-aware as to how the divorce process is affecting you.

When you are better to yourself, you handle the daily tasks regarding your Las Vegas divorce better. Seeking the advice of a family therapist is always a good idea. Taking care of yourself physically also better prepares your body for the stress of divorce proceedings. There is no substitute for regular exercise, a proper diet, and consistent sleep patterns. Decreasing alcohol intake, difficult as it may be, is also in your best interest.

Benefits to All Parties Involved

When both parties strive to treat each other with a certain amount of respect, this fosters a new beginning and resets the existing relationships. This is true for both spouses and especially true for any children involved. You and your spouse are divorcing. But your children will be a large part of both your lives forever. After your divorce, you both will be interacting with each other for custody exchanges when your children are young. There will be college graduations and weddings when they get older. It is common for the healing process to take time so don’t be in a rush.

Divorce does not necessarily have to be mean-spirited. With the help of one of our divorce attorneys, you and your spouse can go through the process amicably. If both parties agree to it, uncontested divorce and divorce mediation are available alternatives to long, stressful, and expensive litigation in court proceedings.

We Handle All Forms of Divorce Proceedings

A Las Vegas divorce mediation attorney provides numerous benefits to both spouses. First they are professionals with years of experience in divorce mediation. This means that they have worked with many types of divorce matters. But the separate themselves from the emotional issues. They also perform divorce mediation on a regular basis, whereas divorcing spouses are going through a unique experience. Their experience is to your advantage but only if you and your spouse are sincerely open to the divorce mediation process.

Las Vegas divorce attorneys Jennifer V. Abrams and Vincent Mayo are Board Certified as experts in divorce law by The State Bar of Nevada. They handle many forms of divorce proceedings and resolutions. Divorce proceeding types include contested divorce litigation, uncontested divorce, and divorce mediation. Divorce resolutions are accomplished by either negotiated settlement or litigation.

What Are Child Custody Factors in Nevada?

Child Custody Factors in NevadaThe child custody factors in Nevada are solely “what’s in the best interest of the children.” It is not what one parent prefers. If the parents cannot agree, then a family court judge will determine child custody. This is a complex and costly process.

A child custody expert may assist the judge with a report or testimony. Not all Nevada child custody experts are equal. So it’s important that your Las Vegas child custody attorneys be familiar with the expert. Equally important is the judge’s prior experience with the expert in past cases.

Judges Prefer Joint Custody

Mom does not get primary custody of the children just by asking for it. The Nevada family courts prefer joint custody. That is, the courts wants both parents to be equally involved in their children’s lives. If one parent believes they should have primary custody, they must prove to the court that the other is unfit or unable. Again the proof must focus on the best interest of the children. This may not agree with the parent seeking primary custody.

Listing of Child Custody Factors in Nevada

In some instances there can be apparent child custody factors. In others, the factors are not as clear. Most importantly, the courts are flexible with co-parenting plans because they want both parents to have equal time with their children. Below is a list of some common factors in Nevada.

  • One parent travels a lot for work, therefore joint custody it is not practical.
  • The parents no longer live close to each other so travel time for the children is too long.
  • One parent has always been the primary caretaker and the other parent has been absent from the children’s lives.
  • One parent has a drug or alcohol addiction.
  • A parent suffers from a medically confirmed mental illness.
  • One parent is incarcerated. This is especially true if it’s due to any form of domestic violence, child abuse, or violating court orders for child custody.

Our divorce attorneys in Las Vegas have years of experience in all the child custody factors in Nevada. They are available to help you. Please call us at 702-222-4021 for a consultation.

Las Vegas Attorney Jennifer V. Abrams Admitted to the Exclusive AAML

Las Vegas Divorce Attorney Jennifer AbramsProminent Las Vegas divorce attorney Jennifer V. Abrams has been admitted to the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers (AAML). Ms. Abrams is one of only seventeen attorneys in Nevada who is a member of this prestigious organization. The group’s members are the leading practitioners of family law in the United States.

The AAML is a national organization with a founding in 1962. Their goal is to “promote professionalism and excellence in the practice of family law.”

The Academy Fellows are negotiators and litigators who represent individuals in all facets of family law with a high skill set. These areas include divorce, annulment, prenuptial agreements, postnuptial agreements, marital settlement agreements, child custody and visitation, business valuations, property valuations and division, alimony, child support and other family law issues.

About Attorney Jennifer Abrams

Attorney Abrams is certified by the State Bar of Nevada as a Nevada Family Law Specialist. The Nevada Family Court Judges and Las Vegas Family Law Attorneys have previously elected her to the Executive Council of the State Bar of Nevada, Family Law Section. Recently she was honored by the Justices of the Supreme Court of Nevada for her work on revising the procedures for NRCP 16.1, 16.2, 16.205 and the Financial Disclosure Forms. Family law attorneys statewide use these procedures and forms in every Nevada divorce case.

The AAML Selection Process

Each Academy Fellow endures a rigorous application process and written examination administered by the AAML’s Board of Examiners. Among other stringent requirements, each applicant must demonstrate:

  • Substantial involvement in matrimonial law practice
  • Improving the practice and elevate the standards of matrimonial law.
  • As one who practices with honesty, integrity, and professionalism.
  • Must have previously, or currently serve, on a judicially appointed statewide committee, task force, commission and the like, related to the subject of matrimonial law.
  • Have substantial trial experience as lead counsel including trial of custody matters, child support, division of property, alimony or spousal support.
  • Be a professor or instructor of law school courses in the area of matrimonial law.
  • Be an author of a major treatise on marital law.
  • Pass a national exam administered by the AAML’s Board of Examiners.

Comedian Chris Rock Files for Divorce

Chris Rock files for divorceJust after the past Christmas Holiday comedian Chris Rock quietly filed for divorce in New Jersey from his wife of almost 19 years, Malaak Compton-Rock. Of course quietly is a relative term when it’s a world-famous celebrity. The comedian asked for privacy during this difficult time. And most of the press so far seems to have honored his wishes. A quick Google search of “Chris Rock divorce” yields little new coverage since the initial divorce filing.

Do Celebrities Deserve Selective Divorce Privacy?

It depends on the circumstances. For example, there is good reason to inform the public if there are allegations of celebrity involvement in criminal activity. Even if the celebrity would prefer to keep the details private. But when the issues at hand are the details of the breakup of a family, the public benefit is negligible. This is especially true when there are minor children involved as there are in Chris Rock’s divorce case.

Las Vegas divorce attorneys that routinely handle high-asset divorce cases understand the privacy requirements of their clients. This is whether the client is a celebrity or not. Contested divorce cases, especially those involving celebrities, often contain salacious details. Whether real or imagined, they make great fodder for the tabloid press. But except for the financial gains for the media, do any of us really benefit from this information? Our opinion is it does not.

Who Really Benefits?

Revealing divorce details does little to benefit us personally or society as a whole. Regardless of the amount of personal information on the web, some things are still no one else’s business. Moreover, spouses often distort their versions of marital strife because of the emotions that go with divorce proceedings. Often these feelings show themselves during court hearings or in court filings.

Another significant privacy factor of divorce cases involves the financial affairs of the parties involved. Regardless of any celebrity status or not, no one wants their finances available for the prying eyes of total strangers. The same goes for nosy neighbors, employers, business associates and competitors.

When divorce information is made public, something said “in the heat of the moment” will be forever available on-line. This can often inhibit post-divorce civility. More importantly, it can also interfere with the co-parenting of minor children. Since we only practice divorce law in Las Vegas, we’re not sure if every state provides for protecting divorce privacy. So you should check your local laws if do don’t live in Nevada.

We often work with clients, celebrity and non-celebrity alike, who are concerned about their Las Vegas divorce assets and debts. Our expert divorce attorneys can put your mind at ease. They know how to protect what you have and get every dollar you deserve in divorce cases.

Las Vegas Divorce Attorney Vincent Mayo Attains National Board Certification

NBTA Divorce Attorneys in Las Vegas Las Vegas Divorce Attorney Vincent Mayo has successfully achieved National Board Certification as a Family Law expert from the National Board of Trial Advocacy (NBTA). Attorney Mayo is also Board Certified by the State Bar of Nevada. Therefore, he has earned board certification on both a state and national level.

Accredited organizations only board certify approximately three percent of American lawyers. Moreover, less than one percent of Nevada attorneys are Board Certified though the State Bar of Nevada. National Board Certification is one of the highest, most stringent, and most reliable honors an attorney can achieve. The NBTA, and all board certified attorneys, have a commitment to safeguarding the public’s ability to choose a highly qualified attorney. Therefore, Mr. Mayo is a member of a select group who has proven his extreme competence in divorce law.

NBTA Divorce Attorneys in Las Vegas

Attorney Mayo is one of only seventeen Las Vegas divorce attorneys to receive NBTA board certification. He has also successfully completed the ABA’s Family Law Trial Advocacy Institute program. This program accepts only 50 applications nationally each year. Vincent has also published numerous articles on various important family law issues.

About the NBTA Process

The NBTA believes that clients benefit from an objective set of standards which prove an attorney’s expertise. So a NBTA certified attorney has demonstrated skill and expertise in a specific law practice area. They have proven this through rigorous examination and testing. The elaborate screening and application that all NBTA board certified attorneys must complete includes the following:

  • Demonstrate substantial trial experience
  • Submit judicial and peer references to attest to their competency
  • Attend continuing legal education courses
  • Submit legal articles
  • Pass an NBTA exam
  • Prove good standing in local and state bar organizations